Originally hailing from Saskatchewan, Canada, Stephen now calls Oklahoma City home. He works at Oklahoma Christian University as a web designer. Some people call him crazy, but he prefers to be called "eccentric" because it makes him sound rich.
"Death by Ballpoint" does not refer to killing people with ballpoint pens. It refers to Stephen's love of all things creative, much as "Death by Chocolate" refers to a love of chocolate.
The views expressed in "Death By Ballpoint" are not necessarily shared by anyone in the world, including Stephen's employer (Please don't fire me, OC - I love you).

There have been a few times in the last few days where I’ve had to wait for something to load/install/download on the computer and had a sheet of paper and a pen within arm’s reach. This is one of the results.

A lion celebrating Thanksgiving. Yes, that’s a turkey.
Well, it’s that time of year again. Most people celebrate one Thanksgiving a year. I have the good fortune of straddling two different cultures with two different Thanksgivings, so I get to celebrate twice. This weekend is Canadian Thanksgiving! God has blessed me beyond what I deserve, and has guided my life in directions I never would have expected. Thanks, God!
It’s time for the list:
Happy Thanksgiving!

Weekend retreat with Memorial Road Church of Christ singles class.
I went down to Lake Hefner tonight with the idea of going for a run, then realized that there was a triathlon going on and the entire path was supposed to be closed to other runners. Boooo… Since I was all the way down there and had my sketch book with me, I decided to do a bit of drawing. This is Mama Roja Mexican Kitchen. There were a lot of beautiful boats on the water in the foreground, but it was getting dark and I didn’t have time to include them.
It’s been a while since I’ve posted any drawings. These are some meeting doodles from a training session last month. I concentrate better when I’m able to doodle. No, really. ![]()
I’ve been listening to a band named Okkervil River for a while. I’m a little embarrassed to say that I’ve been listening to them for a few months without ever having sat down to figure out what they were singing.
A few days ago, I was listening to “Westfall,” one of their songs that I like the sound of (really cool mandolins, by the way). The lyrics really took me by surprise. They’re disturbing. More than that, I found them to be really thought provoking. There is a grain of wisdom here.
I’m surrounded, each doorway covered
By at least twenty men
And they’re going to take me, throw me in prison
I ain’t coming back again
I ain’t coming back againWhen I was younger, handsomer and stronger
I felt like I could do anything
But all of these people making all these faces
Didn’t seem like my kith and kin
Didn’t seem like my kith and kinColin Kincaid from the twelfth grade
I guess you could say he was my best friend
Lived in a big tall house out on Westfall
Where we would hide when the rain rolled in
Where we would hide when the rain rolled inWe went out one night and took a flashlight
Out with these two girls Colin knew from Kenwood Christian
One was named Laurie, that’s what the story
Said next week in the Guardian
Said next week in the GuardianAnd when I killed her it was so easy
That I wanted to kill her again
I got down on both of my knees and
She ain’t coming back again
She ain’t coming back againNow, with all these cameras focused on my face
You’d think they could see it through my skin
They’re looking for evil, thinking they can trace it, but
Evil don’t look like anything
Evil don’t look like anything
Have you ever caught yourself looking at the mug shots of people on the news, trying to figure out what is different about them? Have you ever wondered what might have made those people veer onto a different track? Or if the people around them knew that they were any different?
I think sometimes we think we’ve got everything figured out. We stereotype people as being “risky” based on their race, class, neighborhood, or the way they dress or talk. We think of our neighborhoods as “safe” and others as “dangerous.”
Here’s the secret. There is love in the “bad” neighborhoods, and there are decent people doing the best they can. There is evil in the “good” neighborhoods, and in the hearts of people that you know. God works in people of all classes, colors and locations. So does the devil.
“Evil don’t look like anything.”
What a horrible, true statement that is. Jesus spent his time with the “sinners and tax collectors” while lambasting the “good” people, calling them “broods of vipers.” The people living at the time didn’t have a clue which group was “good” and which was “bad.” As regular people, we aren’t able to tell the difference at a glance. Be more open to interacting with people who aren’t like you, and be on your guard, even around people that you see as “safe.”
Some people sort their shoes into neat rows, by color, brand, or by how formal or casual they are. I don’t.
We went to an OKC Ad Club meeting for lunch today. We talked about social media, but it was mostly things I had heard already. I amused myself by drawing the remains of my plate:

That’s a wadded up napkin, not an uneaten burrito.